Years ago, a partner asked me a one-sentence question, and I answered with six reasons. Resentment is the signal we notice. The over-explaining, the dread, and the quietly absorbed costs arrive long before it.
Tag: overfunctioning
Other People’s Boxes
There were boxes in my spare room that did not belong to me. For months, I made room without ever deciding to. A reflection on overfunctioning, on the quiet habit of carrying what belongs to others, and on what we set down in our own lives at the same time.
