A Saturday morning, a mind replaying the same situation, and a desk covered in good advice pointing in opposite directions. An essay on the moment more input stops helping, and on the question that returned my own judgment to me.
Tag: decision-making
Have You Ever Said Yes When You Meant No?
The quiet patterns that decide before we do A message came in on a Tuesday afternoon, and before I had finished reading it I had already begun typing my reply. Yes. Of course. Happy to. The request was reasonable — a favour, a little extra work, nothing out of the ordinary. What caught me was… Continue reading Have You Ever Said Yes When You Meant No?
Arguing With the Day – Impatience and Acceptance
Nothing went smoothly all day — disappeared files, a wrong turn, keys in the recycling bin — and then I sat in Friday traffic on a drive I had chosen, arguing with its conditions. A reflection on impatience, acceptance, and patience as a capacity that expands and contracts rather than a trait we either have or lack.
Chasing Money, or Chasing the Inner State You Think It Will Produce?
Somewhere along the way, a number became the measure of whether we're okay. This week's reflection looks at what actually happens once the milestone arrives — and what it was never built to deliver.
The Lighthouse Got Vetoed: What We Get Wrong About Presence and Performance
Corporate coaching has a look. My lighthouse didn't fit it. But what got vetoed from my website turned out to be the most accurate metaphor I have for what high performers actually get wrong about presence and performance.
Why Perfectionism Slows Your Decisions (and What to Do Instead)
Perfectionism looks like high standards. In practice it is a protection strategy that delays decisions and costs leadership momentum. Here is what to do instead.
Before You Walk Into the Room
She had prepared for this conversation. She knew the numbers. She knew the counterarguments. She had rehearsed her position the night before and felt clear about it. By the time she walked into that boardroom, she had already been in three meetings. She had also fielded a client escalation and skipped lunch. The room was… Continue reading Before You Walk Into the Room
